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Kristin Haakenson's avatar

Carolyn!! Yes!! Thank you for putting words to this phenomenon. So much of church history is a symbiosis between popular devotion and formal liturgy - but it often feels like the modern approach is to cleave these two essential pieces totally apart, and so we cage ourselves into a space where we feel that we have to be "on brand," even liturgically. We're led to believe that we need all these explicitly (rather than implicitly) liturgical products, and even when there's a beautiful heart behind the product or the buyer, I can't help but feel exhausted by the inundation of this trend.

Like you, See's candy is a big part of my Advent and Christmas memory bank!! Every Christmas, my mom used to buy custom-candy boxes for us (oh my GOSH, the milk chocolate Bordeaux...) They're explicitly secular, but, for our family, implicitly liturgical - I also can't go by a See's store or see a catalog without being transported to the approach of our family's Christmastime together.

A few years ago, having grown up on "A Christmas Story," I finally read Jean Shepherd's book upon which the movie's based - "In God We Trust (All Others Pay Cash"...and my husband & I took turns reading it out loud to each other when we'd wrap presents on Advent evenings after the kids went to bed. It's an INCREDIBLE book, so funny and poignant and witty, and so that became an Advent tradition for us: we bought the rest of Jean's books, and now, every time Advent starts to approach, I feel the itch to get the next book out and start reading and laughing till I cry.

For us, it's liturgical: and I think the more we can rid ourselves of the sacred/secular divide, the more wholly we can live into abundance!

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Amelia McKee's avatar

I love the encouragement to do what you're already doing and connect it to the calendar. Yesterday I had to make cupcakes for a baby shower, but it was also Saint Cecilia’s day/my daughter’s name day. We made cupcakes for Saint Cecilia’s day and listened to some of the saint Cecilia hymns.

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